Whether you’ve adopted a stray kitten, taken in a rescue, or just brought home a new feline friend, one of the first questions many pet parents have is: “Is my cat male or female?” While experienced pet owners and veterinarians can often tell at a glance, identifying your cat’s sex on your own can be tricky — especially in kittens.
This guide breaks down how to tell if your cat is male or female, with clear physical and behavioral indicators, plus when to consult a vet for confirmation.
Why It Matters
Knowing whether your cat is male or female is important for several reasons:
Health and medical care (spaying or neutering timelines differ)
Behavioral expectations (some traits vary slightly between sexes)
Avoiding accidental litters
How to Sex a Kitten or Cat
The most reliable way to determine the sex of a cat is by examining the area under the tail. You’ll need a well-lit area and a gentle approach to avoid stressing your cat.
Step-by-Step:
Gently lift the tail while your cat is calm or being held securely.
Locate the anus, which is the first opening under the tail.
Below the anus, you’ll see one of two formations:
Male cat: There will be a small round opening (the penis) below the anus with a visible space between the two (about 1/2 inch or more in kittens). As the cat matures, testicles will develop between these openings.
Female cat: There will be a vertical slit just below the anus, with less space between the openings (closer together, forming an “i” shape).
Final Thoughts
Figuring out whether your cat is male or female isn’t always obvious, especially in kittens. By learning what to look for — particularly the spacing and shape of the genital area — how you can make an educated guess. When in doubt, always ask your vet for help. Knowing your cat’s sex ensures proper medical care and helps you better understand their needs and behaviors.
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